I have great news to tell my wife, but I don't want to tell her until it is 100% in the bank, which isn't yet, but should be by month end. However, in the meantime she is stressed out by situations that would be eliminated by my good news. Should I tell her about it to stop her worrying? I think I will hold off until it is official. The organization could reneg on its promise to me.

I wrote a mean-sprited letter to this guy, I now I feel bad. I should apologize, so I will right here and now. Dean, I am sorry.